• Start Middle Finish

    Why Is It So Hard to Start, Finish, and Start Again?

    Understanding the Creative Cycle The Creative Cycle at a Glance If you have ever stared at a blank page, a new business idea, a fitness plan, or a half-finished project and thought, “Why is this so hard?” you are not alone. Starting is exciting. The middle feels endless. Finishing is exhausting. And sometimes, after finishing,…

  • Getting Blasted by the Past

    I found this blog post from 2014! It’s funny what things can drag you back into the past. I hear Bad Moon Rising and I’m back in high school in a happy way, but today I clicked on a video (of a PE coach trying to force a female student into the swimming pool) and…

  • What Do You Fear?

    “Do you want to go on an adventure with me?” my brother asked recently. I didn’t even hesitate. “No.” That might surprise anyone who reads my books. My heroines are all brave and bold and unflinching (mostly) in the face of great dangers. I flinch a LOT. My imagination is big enough to make a…

  • Advice: Recognizing the Good Stuff

    Last week I wrote a bit about bad advice and where to put it. No, not there. Well, unless you really have to. But seriously, as I was milling around last week (when I wasn’t knee deep in Dead Spaces), I got to thinking about good advice. Yes, there is such a thing. My life…

  • Getting Out of Our Own Pain the Dr. #Sarno Way

    A couple of months ago my morning started the way most of my mornings do. I made my sleepy way to the refrigerator for a cold Diet Dr. Pepper, before heading to my office to open my email. About halfway there, the soles of my feet started to burn. Before I reached my office, pain…

  • Blasts from the Past O.O

    It’s funny what things can drag you back into the past. I hear Bad Moon Rising and I’m back in high school in a happy way, but today I clicked on a video (of a PE coach trying to force a female student into the swimming pool) and it sent me back to the dark…

  • Images That Engage

    As an author, it sometimes bugs me that a picture is worth a thousand words (cuz it’s not easy puking a thousand words onto a page!), but I can acknowledge the power of a single image. This one from the hubs Flickr stream grabbed my attention and not just because she’s a girl with a…

  • Life is an Invitation

    Life is an invitation. I don’t always feel that way. Sometimes it feels like life is a bat, but when I look at this photo the hubs took, I feel wonder and anticipation. I like feeling that. I grew up with mountains on the horizon. I used to like to look up and see them.…

  • Perilous P’s Dark Side Explained

    At first sight, I thought this was a picture of a monster mouth opening wide to eat something. Possibly a hero.  Though one always hopes it is the villain going down. I suppose it is a bit scary that my go-to place is the monster mouth. When I go back in time in my mind,…

  • It’s Not Easy Being Green

    I feel a lot more sympathy for Kermit the Frog, after taking an unexpected (and unwelcome) side trip into the stomach flu last week. According to the hubs, I turned green. I am not surprised I looked green. I felt green. As I inch my way into the recovery zone (at my age there is…